Confusion-The dictionary defines it as "A mental state characterized by a lack of clear and orderly thought and behavior".Is this good or bad?
People get confused about a lot of things.Its quite natural in many cases.For instance a music composer will get confused on various occasions on what notes should follow a particular rhythm.That is when he/she produces a bad song though it wasn't meant to be that way.A story writer gets confused with the story line that he goes askew and finally that part of story goes to trash.Then he thinks afresh and starts from scratch.
In my journey of life I had faced many confusions right from picking the course for high school,college , on and on..As a matter of fact picking your career path or deciding your future is one of the toughest task.Some people plan well in advance,some leave it to god's will, others to the saints who are supposed to be "knowing everything!!!" .Some cases are very interesting.There are these few who go behind their desire and passion...PAUSE..."Wait.I am confused. I have more than one passion.What am I supposed to do now??".. Assuming all ends well they do FINALLY decide upon their career path something comes next "Can I succeed in this or should I stick on to my existing plan?".I had been one among these few and I am wondering if I had lost my brains in the past.Then came the core confusion. "Being confused is not going to help you or not !!! ?" :P
Do I look confused while writing this blog ?? :P .. Maybe I haven't recovered from it fully.But should I? Here is the deal.Being confused is definitely not a disorder.Its just that your mind takes a long time to make decisions.Of course you can ask me 'So you take such a long time to decide and you don't visualize that as something abnormal ??' .The answer is quite trivial. 'I like being unique'.That's because it is not necessary that you have to be clearer on what is to be done next.Then you lose the possibility of thinking over something which is basically getting confused.The satisfaction you get after a long confusion is something you don't get on making quick decisions.But not for petty matters.That case its a BIG problem!! Beware.
So ready to get confused within your limits :P ??
So finally this post dedicated to U! If u take a long time in taking d right decisions, u still have the risk of running out of time :P Good one!
ReplyDeleteI need to read it again..i AM confused :)
ReplyDeleteI got a small doubt here .. So you want me to get confused and lose the screen play abruptly? Mr.Four trying to dig a grave to my passion .. :P Jus kiddin I feel gettin confused is somethin wich comes on its own .. Even if u take quick decisions at some part of it you tend to get confused by instincts..
ReplyDeletebeing an instinctive person,m tryin to change and go through the whole process of "thinkin and deciding" like u do...yup,it invites a lot of confusion...i think i got the basic idea of this piece...gud one!!!
ReplyDeleteso ru justifyin in takin de time to decide on wat dish to order n wat color dress u need to buy...confusion at its best is u!! :P
ReplyDelete@Nitin & Ipshi- Thks guys..U got me right.
ReplyDelete@Kau- Ur question tells d fact dat u din read it proply.Let me quote "Its quite natural in many cases.For instance.."
@Raak-Choosing a dress is quite imp to me.No probs in thkin over it for a long time.Side dish..naah..dese days dat doesn happen.
Well u said.. 'The satisfaction you get after a long confusion is something you don't get on making quick decisions' ... May be it suits for things like choosing a career,accepting a proposal(for girls only),shopping etc. but there are situations where u shud NOT be confused n be quick-witted. instances are - taking a run in cricket,accepting a proposal from a beautiful girl (:P),saving a person's life etc..confusion in these kind of situs is like a dylexsia...there is psyhcological fact that 'a person who easily gets confused doesn't have a good presence of mind', best example is me.:)
ReplyDeleteSo i wud say it all depends upon the situation
lolllolll :D:D..this post AMAZED me :D:D...I have written a similar post on confusion :D:D...just to comment on this one, i'd quote the following:
ReplyDelete".................Sometimes I'm confused by what I think is really obvious. But what I think is really obvious obviously isn't obvious........"
I'd just say that its all a part of our Mandate phase..comes with age :P B-)
True swathy! u have lots of post..point me to the one u r referring it to..wud like to chk it out
Deleteah..I was talking abt this post -> http://swatz-bang.blogspot.in/2009/12/confusion.html :)
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